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5th Nov 2025

Alone, Together: The Rise of the Solo Lifestyle

Takeaways:

  • In today's world, we're spending more time online and alone, which has become our new normal.
  • The pandemic taught us how to enjoy solitude, but now it feels like we're stuck in it.
  • It's not that we want to be hermits; it's just easier to stay home than go out.
  • The design of our modern systems favors isolation, making it simpler for companies to reach individuals.
  • Being alone can feel comforting, but it's crucial to balance it with social connections.
  • Ultimately, we need to recognize how our habits have changed and adapt accordingly.

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

  • McKinsey


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Transcript
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This is the Daily Note.

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I'm James A.

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Brown.

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The consulting firm McKinsey found that we're spending more time alone and online than ever before.

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During the pandemic, we all learned to be alone, and apparently that behavior stuck.

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Maybe we liked it, or maybe we just got used to it.

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Honestly, it's hard to tell the difference anymore.

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I notice it in myself.

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Declining invitations feels easier.

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Staying home sounds better.

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The couch knows my name, after all.

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But here's what bothers me.

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We're not becoming hermits because we want to.

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We're becoming hermits because everything is designed for the apps, the delivery, the entertainment.

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The system wants us separated because it's easier to sell to individuals than communities.

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It's simpler to control the isolated than the connected.

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At least that's what I think.

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So what do you think?

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Let me know on jamesabrown.

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Net on that note, I'm James A.

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Brown and as always, be well.

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