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17th Oct 2024

Lost in Transition: Young Men's Place in Today's Society

Young men are struggling to find their footing in today's workforce, while more women aged 25 to 34 are entering the labor market than ever before. This episode explores the stark contrast in the trajectories of young men and women, highlighting that young men are increasingly likely to live at home without employment or educational engagement. Personal stories shed light on this trend, such as the Morenos, whose three adult sons are still living at home, and Ronan Connervy, a young man whose college experience has been derailed by social distractions. The discussion delves into the shifting gender roles and the decline of traditional industries that have historically employed young men, leaving many feeling uncertain about their place in society. As the episode concludes, it raises the critical question of what can be done to help young men find their footing again and whether society should be concerned about this growing divide.

Takeaways:

  • Young men are struggling in the labor market, often living at home with their parents.
  • Women aged 25 to 34 are increasingly entering the workforce, highlighting a gender disparity.
  • The decline of traditional male-dominated industries like manufacturing affects young men's job prospects.
  • Many young men feel uncertain about their roles in society as family formation delays.
  • Shifting gender roles and expectations create challenges for young men finding their place.
  • We must consider what support systems can help young men regain their footing in society.

A critical examination of the shifting dynamics between genders in the workforce reveals a stark contrast in the trajectories of young men and women. Currently, women aged 25 to 34 are entering the labor market in unprecedented numbers, while young men appear to be stagnating. The statistics are disheartening: men in this demographic are twice as likely to live at home compared to their female counterparts, and many find themselves neither employed nor pursuing education or training. This troubling trend is not just a statistical anomaly; it carries with it personal narratives that highlight the struggles many families face today. The episode delves into individual stories, such as that of the Moreno family, where a daughter graduates and engages while her brothers remain at home, illustrating the societal pressures and expectations that have shifted dramatically over the years.


As the conversation unfolds, it becomes evident that the issues at hand are deeply intertwined with broader societal changes, including the decline of traditional family structures and the erosion of industries historically dominated by men, such as manufacturing. Richard Reeves' insights into the feelings of uncertainty many young men experience about their roles in society bring to light the emotional and psychological impacts of these changes. The episode emphasizes the need for a balanced society where both genders can thrive, suggesting that to foster a healthy social environment, it's essential to address the unique challenges faced by young men today. The discussion culminates in a call to action, urging listeners to consider what can be done to support young men in finding their footing in a rapidly changing world, ultimately questioning whether these trends warrant concern or demand further exploration.

Transcript
James Brown:

Young men.

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This is commentary from James Brown.

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The numbers are clear and in some ways surprising.

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In other ways, not so much.

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Young men and women are on different paths.

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More women aged 25 to 34 are entering the workforce than ever before, while young men seem to be treading water.

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Over the last decade, the share of young men in the labor market has not grown.

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In fact, men in this group are twice as likely to live with their parents compared to women, and there are more of them, neither employed nor in school or in training programs.

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But these statistics don't capture the personal stories behind all this.

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The Wall Street Journal spoke to Dan and Joanna Moreno, for example, their daughter recently graduated from business school and got engaged.

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While their three adult sons are still living at home, Dan told them that they loved them, but that's not how you build a life.

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No kidding.

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Then there's Ronan Connervy, a 21 year old whose college experience was derailed because he partied too much.

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His post pandemic return to campus was more about socializing than studying.

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I didn't actually spend the time to think, hey, are these people I'm hanging out with good people?

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He said.

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It's a question that many of us have to ask at some point in our lives.

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So, hey, what's going on here?

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Aspirations point to several factors.

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Gender roles are shifting, and the traditional single earner family structure is disappearing.

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On top of that, industries that typically employed young men, like manufacturing, have been in decline.

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According to Richard v.

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Reeves of the American Institute of Boys and Men, many young men are feeling uncertain about their place in society.

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They're unsure if they're needed by their families or their communities.

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As family formation fades, or it's at least delayed, young men are left asunder.

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I know I certainly felt that way.

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If we want to have a happy, healthy society going forward, we need both sexes to feel like they have places in our society.

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I understand on some levels the overcorrection that's happened in the recent decades.

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Women were shunned from the workplace for the most part in the first few centuries of american history.

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But I do think there is a future where both men and women can feel like they have the same platter of options without one dominating the other.

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The question I have for you all is what can be done to help these young men find their footing again?

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How would you do it?

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And or should we worry about this at all?

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Let me know in the comments and support my work at jamesbrowntv dot substack.com.

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on that note, I'm James Brown and as always be well.

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