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26th Sep 2025

Jim Harbaugh can be destroyed but not defeated

Today, we’re diving into the art of losing like a pro! Yep, you heard that right—losing! Jim Harbaugh, one of my all-time fave football coaches, taught us a thing or two about handling defeat with style. Remember that epic moment when he lost the NFC Championship game? Instead of sulking, he quoted Hemingway and reminded us that while a man can be destroyed, he can never be defeated. That’s the spirit we’re chatting about today—how losing can reveal our true selves and what we really stand for. So, how do you handle defeat? I’d love to hear your thoughts, so drop me a line at jamesabrown.net or give me a ring! Let’s get into it!

Jim Harbaugh is more than just a football coach; he’s a beacon of resilience. Picture this: it’s the NFC championship game, and the pressure is on. Harbaugh’s team just faced defeat, but instead of crumbling under the weight of disappointment, he flashes a smile and drops a quote from Ernest Hemingway: "A man can be destroyed but not defeated." This moment encapsulates the essence of handling loss with grace. In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of losing and how it reveals our true character. We explore the idea that while winning is celebrated, losing often teaches us more about ourselves. It strips away the facade and shows our core values. How do we respond when life throws us curveballs? Through Harbaugh’s experience, we learn that it’s not about the scoreboard; it’s about maintaining our integrity and spirit. So, how do you handle defeat? This episode isn’t just a reflection on sports; it’s a broader commentary on resilience in life. I invite you to think about your own experiences with loss and what they taught you. Let’s not just celebrate the wins but also learn from the losses that shape us into who we are.

Takeaways:

  • Jim Harbaugh's coaching style emphasizes resilience; losing reveals true character in athletes.
  • The famous quote by Hemingway, 'A man can be destroyed, but not defeated,' inspires us to persevere.
  • In the world of sports, how you handle defeat can define your legacy and impact others.
  • We often overlook the lessons learned from loss, which can be just as valuable as victory.
  • Harbaugh's reaction to losing the NFC championship game teaches us about maintaining dignity under pressure.
  • Engaging with defeat can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of oneself.

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Transcript
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This is the Daily Note.

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I'm James A.

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Brown.

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Jim Harbaugh is one of my favorite football coaches for a lot of reasons.

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But it all started with one moment.

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Years ago when he led the 49ers.

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He lost the NFC championship game.

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A reporter asked him on live TV if he was devastated.

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Harbaugh smiled and laughed a bit.

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Then he quoted Ernest Hemingway, a man can be destroyed, but not defeated.

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We don't talk enough about how people lose.

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It's losing that strips away polish and shows you what someone stands for, especially when all eyes are on him.

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I've never forgotten that moment because it proved Harbaugh's point.

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He lost the game, but not himself.

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So here's my question.

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How do you handle defeat?

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Let me know@jamesabrown.net or call me.

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On that note, I'm James A.

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Brown and as always, be well.

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