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23rd Jun 2025

When's the Last Time You Felt Seen?

Loneliness among low-income individuals is a big deal, and it’s not just a fleeting feeling—it’s chronic and can take a real toll on both our bodies and spirits. An eye-opening study from Oxford revealed that nearly half of all low-income folks feel lonely, and get this, they’re socializing just as much as those with higher incomes. It’s a wild world out there! But here’s the silver lining: while social connection doesn’t magically erase poverty, it can soften the blow, making life a little more bearable for those who need it most. So, let’s chat about the importance of connection—it's simple but powerful! When was the last time you felt truly seen by someone? And hey, how about making an effort to help someone else feel less alone? Join me for a heartwarming dive into why community matters now more than ever!

Feeling lonely can sometimes feel like being in a crowded room with no one to talk to. That’s exactly what we dived into in this episode! We explored a crucial finding from an Oxford study that revealed nearly half of all low-income individuals experience chronic loneliness, despite socializing just as much as those with fatter wallets. Talk about a punch in the gut, right? It’s wild how loneliness doesn’t discriminate by income level but hits hard all the same. We unpacked how this feeling isn’t just sadness; it’s like wear and tear on both body and spirit, manifesting as fatigue, low mood, and even physical pain. It’s a bit of a downer, but fear not—there’s a silver lining! We discussed how social connections can be a balm for these wounds. While they won’t magically erase poverty, they can certainly soften the blows life throws at us. So, what’s the takeaway? It’s super important to foster connections and ensure no one feels like they’re carrying their burdens alone. After all, loneliness might not hinge on how many people are around you, but rather how deeply we feel connected when we are with others. So, when was the last time you really felt seen? And when did you help someone feel less alone? Let’s keep those conversations flowing!

Takeaways:

  • A startling study revealed that nearly half of low-income individuals feel lonely, which is pretty heart-wrenching to think about.
  • Chronic loneliness affects people regardless of their income, showing that social interaction doesn't guarantee connection.
  • Loneliness can manifest in real physical symptoms, like fatigue and low mood, not just in our minds.
  • Social connections may not eliminate poverty, but they can certainly help soften its effects on people's lives.
  • It's crucial to remember that nobody should have to go through life's struggles alone; let's be there for each other!
  • True connection isn't just about being around people; it's about feeling genuinely seen and understood by them.


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Transcript
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More than company.

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This is commentary from James Brown.

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An Oxford study looked at 20 European countries and found something that hurts to read Nearly half of all low income people feel lonely.

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Not occasionally, not once in a while, but chronically, even though they socialize just as much as folks with higher incomes.

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And the pain doesn't stop there.

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Loneliness among the poor is tied to real physical symptoms, like fatigue, like pain and low mood.

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It's not just sadness.

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It's wear and tear on the body, on the spirit.

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But here's what caught me Social connection still helps.

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It doesn't erase poverty, but it softens the blow, especially for those who need it most.

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That feels important.

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In a time where so many fixes sound expensive or abstract, this one is simple.

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Make sure nobody has to carry it all alone.

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Maybe loneliness isn't about how often we're around people.

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Maybe it's about how deeply we feel, seen when we are.

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So I'll ask you, when did someone last really see you?

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And have you made someone feel less alone lately?

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On that note, I'm James Brown and as always, be well.

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