Six Months In: Are Your New Year's Resolutions Still Kicking?
Are your New Year’s resolutions still hanging in there, or have they taken a nosedive six months into 2025? Let’s face it, the gym is a bustling hive of activity in January but by summer, it’s back to the usual crowd—just us regulars trying to figure out how to use the machines without looking like we’re auditioning for a circus act. We often treat giving up on our goals as a personal failure, but what if it’s just a gentle nudge from life? This episode dives into making our resolutions a little more flexible, like yoga for our ambitions! Instead of “I must exercise every day,” how about “I’ll move my body when I can”? It’s all about being honest with ourselves and finding a balance that works—because nobody needs perfection, just a little progress amid the glorious chaos of life. So, how are your resolutions holding up? Let’s chat about it!
As the calendar flips past the halfway mark of 2025, we're taking a moment to reflect on those ambitious New Year's resolutions we all made six months ago. You know the ones: the lofty promises of saving more money, hitting the gym regularly, and generally being the happiest version of ourselves. Spoiler alert: January was a packed house at the gym, but by March, the enthusiasm tapered off, and by summer, it was back to the regulars. What gives? Why do we treat the abandonment of our resolutions as personal failures? Maybe it's not about failing; maybe it’s just a sign that our goals need a little more wiggle room. This episode dives into the idea that our resolutions should be flexible. After all, life is unpredictable, and rigid goals can leave us feeling like we're in a straitjacket of expectations. Instead of aiming for perfection, we should aim for progress—something the Mental Health Foundation backs up with some pretty insightful advice. So, how are those resolutions holding up for you? Let's chat about the lessons learned and the gap between who we are and who we dream of being. Join us as we explore the art of setting realistic goals and embracing our true selves with a little more kindness and a lot less pressure.
Takeaways:
- Six months into 2025, many of us have already given up on our resolutions, right?
- We often treat failing our resolutions as a personal failure, but it's really just valuable information!
- What if we approached our goals with flexibility instead of rigidity? Life happens, folks!
- Instead of aiming for perfection, let's focus on being honest about what we can achieve.
- How are your resolutions holding up six months in? It's a great time for self-reflection!
- Remember, our goals should empower us, not break us under pressure.
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Transcript
Six months this is commentary from J A Brown.
Speaker A: It's six months into: Speaker A:Six months since we all promised to save more money, to exercise more, to be happier.
Speaker A: the top three resolutions for: Speaker A:I drove past this morning.
Speaker A:Same story as always, packed in January, half full by March and back to regulars by summer.
Speaker A:We treat giving up on resolutions like personal failure, when maybe it's just information.
Speaker A:Maybe that goal to wake up at 5:30 every morning and go to the gym was less about health and more about trying to become someone who you're not really.
Speaker A:The Mental Health foundation says something smart about this.
Speaker A:They suggest making resolutions flexible.
Speaker A:Flexible enough to bend, what with life instead of breaking under it.
Speaker A:What if I will exercise every day became I'll move my body when I can.
Speaker A:The goal isn't to become perfect, it's to become honest about what you can actually achieve.
Speaker A:So how are your resolutions holding up six months in?
Speaker A:And what have they taught you about the difference between who you are and who you want to be?
Speaker A:Let me know in the comments and check out more@jamesabrown.net or on that note, I'm James A.
Speaker A:Brown and as always, be well.