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18th Jul 2025

When $250K Just Doesn’t Feel Like Enough: The Rich Paradox

Ever feel like you’re rolling in dough but still feel financially pinched? We’re diving into the curious case of households that rake in around a quarter million bucks a year yet claim they don’t feel rich. It’s like being at a fancy buffet and still feeling hungry! We’ll explore how soaring costs—think housing, college tuition, and insurance—can take a big bite out of even the fattest paychecks. Plus, we’ll chat about that sneaky little thing called lifestyle inflation, where more money means spending more. As Biggie Smalls wisely said, “more money, more problems,” and we’re here to unpack that conundrum together. So, grab your headphones, and let’s get into why being affluent can sometimes feel like being anxious!

Takeaways:

  • Even when households earn a quarter million dollars annually, many still don't feel rich.
  • Rising costs of living, such as housing and insurance, can eat up substantial incomes.
  • The concept of 'living beyond your means' is real; more income often leads to more spending.
  • Feeling affluent yet anxious is a common paradox in today's economy, according to recent studies.
  • It's important to consider how much money it would really take to feel financially comfortable.
  • The juxtaposition of wealth and pressure showcases the complexities of modern financial life.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

  • The Wall Street Journal
  • James A. Brown

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Transcript
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When rich doesn't feel rich.

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This is commentary from James A.

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Brown.

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They're in the top 10% of earners, but they claim they don't feel rich.

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We're talking about households making around a quarter million dollars a year.

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Yeah, that number sounds huge to me, and I bet to you, too.

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And on paper it definitely is.

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But here's the thing.

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Soaring costs for housing, college, insurance and borrowing can chew through even a fat paycheck in a thick bank account.

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And even with that paycheck, something else happens.

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A bigger lifestyle.

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Don't you think that's part of it.

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You don't just earn more, you spend more.

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Like Biggie Small said, more money, more problems.

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So you end up with families who look rich but house poor, feeling squeezed.

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The Wall Street Journal put it plainly.

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These people know they're lucky compared to you and me, but they still feel the pressure.

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Strange place to be, don't you think?

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Affluent but anxious.

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Well, hey, guys.

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Welcome to the club.

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So what do you think?

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How much money would it take to make you feel comfortable?

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Let me know in the comments and learn more@jamesabrown.net or on that note, I'm James A.

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Brown, as always.

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Be well.

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Now what.

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